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<<2005-12-02 - 5:56 a.m.>> Awake in the middle of the night, I just suddenly realized what the problem at home over the breaklet was. It's that we were communicating like we were over the phone. Or at least he was to me. When you're with someone, in proximity, you can say things to them without saying them. This capacity was not utilized. Everything was pressed into the mold of words. No wonder it felt distancing. It's the communicative mode of distance.(Eureka!) Back to sleep. Mini-orals tomorrow. << - >> |